I must confess I still can't believe it's not butter!

And that I am looking for a woman my age or older to have a master/slave or mistress/slave relationship going in which we can take turns dominating each other until we can't stand.

I am a goddess and a mistress. I love torturing men and humiliate and offend them and spend their money. I am here because I am looking for new people to dominate. I am a serious person and I try as many serious people. I do not want wasters or people who like talking without proving the facts.You can catch my attention only with a tribute otherwise do not even try.Are you ready to let yourself be enchanted and to give all your time and money to me?

Hello all :-) I'm a single 29 year old sexually submissive guy based in Ireland. I'm ultimately looking towards being in a real long term relationship with the right type of Lady (aged around 20-40)

A little about me.. I think I'm a pretty nice guy, sure I have my off days, I'm far from perfect, but then again who is? Positives I guess: I'm very genuine, honest, caring, love having a good laugh, open minded, quirky/random/funny, witty etc.

I'm into the following:

Obviously first off, Dominant (Mistress/Switch female) and Submissive (Slave male) role play.

I have a massive Shiny Clothing Fetish (Shiny Nylon Puffer Jackets, Shiny Wetlook Leggings, Rubber, Latex, PVC, Leather, catsuit, corsets, panties, boots etc.)

Cuckolding (minimal experience thus far)

Bondage (Handcuffs, Rope, Chains)

Body worship (kissing/licking all over and the scent of the body)

Humiliation (Queening/Facesitting, Rimming, Dirty Talk, Name Calling, Cum Cleaning, Golden Showers, Forced fart breathing/sniffing, Being used & abused etc.)

Biting and being bitten

Breath play/control (smothering)

Punishments (I'm not what you'd call a massive pain slut though, open to further training)

Using toys (vibrators, dildos, handcuffs, butt plugs, gags, whips, strap-ons, electrical play, pumps)

I am also curious about and would like to experience things like Chastity Devices, Scat, forced bisexuality and orgy/gang bang/group sex.. Etc. :-)

So yep, that's a bit about me..

So who exactly am I looking for? Well there's no perfect person out there.. I'm looking for a mix of things that leads to sizzling chemistry, real feelings and a proper connection like.. Conventional vanilla love with the BDSM/Kink twist.

Personality wise I'd be looking for a Lady that is really genuine, honest, loyal, caring and open minded. A proper partner first and foremost.. Who can accept the vanilla aspects of a real relationship, but, one who is also Dominant enough to really mark Her territory through Her training and control.

Anyway that's me, I'd love to hear from you if you think I might be your type and would like to get to know each other better. :-)

P.S. Unfortunately I cannot relocate outside of my area in Ireland, however, I would still be interested in getting to know the right Lady from outside of my area/country/region as long as she would be willing to eventually move to relocate here to Ireland with me.

Regards,

Brendan

My wife is tiny, but she is my mistress. She is only 5' tall and very slender, with a pert little ass and lovely little pert breasts. I am just over 6', work out and keep fit, but I love to be dominated by her.

Today her boyfriend came over, she has had boyfriends since before we got married, she only has one at a time, and the rule for me is that when she has a boyfriend I am not allowed to fuck her. I'm also not allowed to masturbate without her instruction and with her watching me. She has been with this guy for 6 months, so I haven't fucked her in that time, and she has only allowed me to cum occasionally. So this is a little story about today.

She let him in the door, embracing him his hands went straight to her little ass, up her skirt and started fumbling in her panties. She mockingly spanked him, telling him off for being so impatient. "When did you last cum?" she asked him. He told her it had been a couple of days, "oh good, I was hoping to collect a big load". I wasn't sure what she meant by that, but they went upstairs to the bedroom and I followed. I got naked and sat in my chair. She always make me watch when she has a boyfriend.

She was pulling his clothes off as he was rubbing her through her panties, I could see the cloth starting to get wet, wishing to be able to taste her. Then she was on her knees, taking his cock in her mouth, now her own hands were working her pussy through her pants, making her wetter and wetter. Taking his cock in her hand she licked down over his balls, wanking his cock.

"Fuck me now" she said. She laid on the bed parting her legs and he pushed his cock in to her. My own cock was throbbing hard but I hadn't been told that I was allowed to touch it, so it just ached wanting to be wanked. "Dam, I forgot, I want to collect your cum", she said as she pushed him off. She got a condom and rolled it down his cock. She turned and got on all fours so he could fuck her from behind. She knows I love the view of her little ass sticking up like that. She picked her wet panties off the bed as he was fucking her and reached over and pushed them in to my mouth. Shit, she tastes so good! I sucked on the skimpy cloth in my mouth wishing I could touch myself.

Then, with a groan he came. She pulled of his still throbbing cock, reached down and peeled the condom off him. It had a very large load of cum in it. She bought it over to me. "For you" she said tilting my head back. I opened my mouth and she poured the warm liquid in to it. "Swallow", so I did.

She asked her boyfriend to pass her another condom, which he did. Why did she need that, was I finally going to fuck her, was she going to change the rules and let me feel her tight pussy on my cock. She cupped my balls in her hand, shit, don't cum, don't cum, hold it in. I've not cum in ages and her hands feel so good. She unwraps the condom rolling it down my throbbing cock, looking me in the eyes as she does it. It feels amazing, but I manage to hold back, I want to fuck her so badly. Again she cups my balls in her hand, gently, teasing, tickling. She puts her lips to my ear, just touching, my cock twitches. She whispers, sexily "I know you want to fuck me". Fuck, my cock has a large twitch, my cum is pumping out into the condom, she is laughing, tweeking my nipples as my cock continues to spurt cum.

Now she peels off my condom and offers that up to my mouth. I drink my own liquid, it is worth it to see her smile. But my time is over for now, her boyfriend is hard again, and she wants his cock in her, they fuck again, bareback this time like usual. When they eventually finish I get to clean her with my tongue. I make her cum, and as this pleases her she allows me to cum again, but I have to drink it again.

Her boyfriend has gone now, and we are alone. She has told me to write this as she wants others to see it. She tells me she is getting bored of her current boyfriend, maybe it is time for a break or a change. If she decides that then I will get to feel her pussy again, at least until she finds a new interest.

My spun sissy fantasy all last night was, having a sexy 18 year old girl find out I'm wearing tiny little girl panties in a sex shop. Humiliated I beg her to keep quiet and let me run away in shame, but I'm led to the back to the porn booths/gloryholes and made to strip down to only the panties for her to not tell everyone inside. She grabbed my clothes as she snapped a picture with her phone camera, and told me to do whatever she said or I'll be left there in panties as she tells the whole store. She wants to film me saying my full name, address, and beg to be her sissy sex slave. Sissy porn is played while I masturbate till she gets back with " supplies " and I'm bound, blindfolded, with a choice of begging for chastity or being castrated. I'm crying like a real sissy bitch as she locks the smallest cage made on my now non existent penis, laughs, and breaks off the key in it. She tells me to decide either work the gloryhole for her to record and post online or be led out of the store by leash publicly and permanently her sissy slave.... Crying and humiliated I'm stopped at the front door of the store where I hear men and women laughing at me, she says out loud " you're not a man you're a sissy who will never touch that tiny little limp sissy clit again, I locked it in chastity and broke the key so you can only cum from having a sissygasm ever again. Then she slips something over my balls followed by pain, and explains the castration band stays on until I can cum like a true sissy. Proving that I am and always have been a sissy for dominant women and real alpha Males to use and abuse to fill their sexual wants and fantasies, or allow her to take the last of my masculinity permanently. Tears flow down my face as she records me bound, blindfolded, on a leash in front of a crowd of strangers at a sex store with the smallest chastity cage made and a castration band break my mind and any remaining delusions of being a man. I start to beg and plead with her to let me try and have a sissygasm right there with everyone watching and laughing as I swear to do anything she tells me to because I am her willing and obedient sissy slave for life if my mistress will allow me too try and save my worthless tiny sissy balls by having my first sissygasm right there for all to see. She agrees with conditions, my sissy clit is strictly off limits any touching or stimulation will cost me my balls no excuse, I must sit on and ride a dildo till I sissygasm or give up no vibrators allowed, and I have to suck every cock put in my face/swallow every drop of cum shot in my mouth/thank every man for his cum . I'm made to thank her for proving that I am not a man, and then she tells me the punishments for any failures plus I have to pick the handicap I want to endure while she she creates an online pay per view video blog to post all the humiliating videos she has got planned for my porn career. I can swallow one m2f transformation pill with every load of cum I swallow if I want estrogen lubrication on the 10 inch long 3 inch thick big black dildo, or swallow one pill everyother cum load but with numbing cream on the dildo make having a sissygasm take extremely long. I ask for more pills and estrogen lubrication and start to cry again when she says everytime I fail to swallow the pills or one drop of cum eagerly and with a smile another band will be added to my balls castrating me faster, failing to thank anyone sincerely results in an extra band, pill, and my home address. Every man I make cum before I can sissygasm adds a band I find out after I look into the camera and tell everyone that will ever watch my full name and that I wanted all this to happen and i willingly consented to this "forced feminization" video asking everyone to enjoy my "fantasy" come true of being actually made into a permanent sissy publicly in a forced feminization "simulation" movie with a forced fake smile acting excited about losing my failed life as a male. After the second band gets added everyone starts choking me unconscious with their cocks while telling me to rub my sissy clit and cum for everyone like the sissy I am, my castration is happening regardless and I should hurry up and have my first sissygasm and actually cum for the last time of my life. My first sissygasm has me shaking and moaning like a girl, then the blindfolded is removed as I cry and sob seeing my dead black balls knowing It's to late. I have to finish off the movie by thanking all the viewers, all the men who feed me their cum and feminization hormones, and my mistress for making my dreams come true turning me into a sissy that will never cum again. But my nightmare has just started... message me if you want to hear more.

We believe, �From small beginnings come great things,� so we are looking for real and genuine people to make casual connections that have the very real possibility of turning into naughty, erotic nights.

About Us: We are two professional people exploring our sexual lives as Dominant and Submissive relationship together. She is in an open marriage and is the sweet Mistress of the couple. He is deeply humbled cuckold male longing to see her pleasured by the right men and women. His role is whatever his mistress deems is appropriate.

We are an experienced couple, and each of us have had separate third party or couple experiences, so you�re most certainly in good hands. Intelligent, well-read, quick witted, attractive, non-judgmental adults, we believe in the �Golden Rule� in and out of the bedroom.

Since we are a relatively new couple, we are looking to walk, before running, which means connecting with women and couples for boudoir fun � in both traditional (oral, voyeur, MFF, MMF) as well as light kinky fun (Sub/Dom/Bondage) scenarios. But most importantly, we are looking for drama free personalities, who are stable and comfortable in their own skin and sexuality. Oh, and connecting on a mental level is just as important, if not more,than the physical stuff. Casual, short-term and/or long-term play with a couple or female is in play. Though a single, impromptu night of fun isn�t totally out the question; has to be the right moment in time.

She: Firecracker with dark bedroom eyes, long reddish brown hair and voluptuous curves that you want to hold onto as well as a mouth that can tickle both your brain and, well, you know what else. Though only 5�3�, she�s an alpha female, who�s not afraid to ask for what she wants, but also enjoys aggressive play and submissive antics. Adept with mouth, hands and toys, both men and women enjoy her enthusiastic nature and genuine personality.

He: At 6�1�, he�s tall, and handsome.. An professional who loves seeing his mistress and her playmates pleasure before his own. Never pushy and always submissive, he makes sure everyone is fulfilled. His cuckold nature has him put follow her every word and command.

My Ideal Person: Honest, stable, real people, who are also smart, quick witted, comfortable in their own body and sexuality, and have a positive "we only have 1 life, so what the hell" attitude. We prefer women, men and couples who are bisexual, bi-curious and issue free.

Does not matter if you are single, married or BF/GF outside your marriage, all we ask is you leave your judgment and insecurities at the door and saddle up for some good old-fashioned fun, which means connecting first and seeing where things go from there.

As life-long learners and book sluts, it would be nice to meet individuals who are just intrigued by what�s going on in the real world as they are in the play/online world. For us that mental connection is huge. But we are visual creatures, so physical attraction on all parts (hey, we�re not perfect) is necessary. This means photos are important, for weighing initial attraction as well as for safety concerns.

Could you be are plus 1 or 2 or 3? We hope so.

Absolute no-nos:
Lying
Drugs
Diseases
Hot Heads
Jealousy
Drama Queens
Misogynists
Unsure or indecisive thinkers
Being Flakey

I must confess, this is my first post. im a 25 year old male living in ottawa. im usually a leader and can be pretty dominant... but lately I've been wanting to be taken advantage of/ humiliated/ and told what to do. id love to be a slave for a mistress, id be the best slave! id do absolutely anything she tells me (the perfect slave). I've been trying to find women that will be my master but no luck so far:( I'd like to hear what the motherless ladies think about having a slave to worship their every command, and if you enjoy that what would you have me do for you

SUBMISSIVE 45 YO WHITE MALE WANTS TO BE DOMINATED BY A WOMAN ON SKYPE. I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR YOU MISTRESS. MY SKYPE ID IS TRAVIS5879

It all started with my then favorite band, McFly. I loved the music and I was in love with the guys. As I searched fan sites, like the obssessed fangirl I am, I discovered ... Fanfiction. I love to read and so reading stories about my favorite people in the world really was the best way for me to feel like I knew them. Later on I found my next obssession... Twilight. By that time I was older, and so the fanfiction I read evolved with my way of thinking. I soon found myself reading Mature rated stories and touching myself as I read. But soon 'nilla stories weren't enough to get me by... And so I discovered D/s and BDSM. As I read these stories, I always identified myself with the character in the submissive role. I've always been a people pleaser and have always felt great pride in a job well done, and so

I soon realised I was submissve and I wanted to be trained, to be taught how to please a Dom/me, in the appropriate manner.
While Googling, Dominant and Submissive, I fell apon EP. But to read the stories, I needed an account and so I created one and soon my story was up. I later received a very interesting personal message from a certain young woman looking for a female online sub, in getting to know her I soon realised that this could work, and so when the question came : Will you submit to me? I only had one answer in mind. Yes, Mistress.

We've now been getting to know each other through daily emails. Since my return from Europe, I've been given a list of daily tasks, which I am to fulfill for my Mistress' pleasure.

�1) kim will use lower case letters when writing her name or using personal pronouns.

2) kim will not wear make-up without Mistress's prior permission

3) kim will not wear jewelry without Mistress's prior permission

4) kim will skirts or dresses as often as possible. Mistress will allow Her pet to wear jeans during her period

5) kim will never wear panties. Mistress will allow Her pet to do so during her period.

6) kim will keep her pussy shaved smooth at all times.

7) kim shall communicate with her Mistress at least every other day on EP or email.

8) each night when going to sleep kim shall meditate on her submission to Mistress

9) kim shall not date or engage in any sexual activity without Mistress's prior permission

10) kim shall not masturbate. her body belongs to Mistress and is for Her pleasure.

I Honestly expected most of these rules when I came into this, except maybe the No Underwear ever rule, but really it isn't scary or complicated, it's just less laundry.

Now we are to begin my real training, and I am to keep updating this blog, as I evolve and learn how to be a sub.

And so these are The Confessions of a Sub in Training... ahha no, but still I'll be writing about my experience and my Mistress's teachings here.. Let's see what happens next...

Are there any domination instruction vids out there?
Ones with a really strict mistress ordering me to use my anus and penis?

Any links etc would be perfect

i looking for a new mistress and master in the surrey area of the uk. A couple who will humiliate and dominate me. i do not do piss ot scat, anything else is good.